Interesting. I just viewed the three-part blog series “The Right to Be…Deaf” at Patti Durr’s People of the Eye. This series reminded me of the v/blog posts I created last May on the subject of neutrality. The question raised in my two posts was whether the information being given to parents of newly-diagnosed Deaf babies and children was neutral or not. Here are the titles which you can click to view (Neutrality: Does It Exist? and Got Neutrality? )
In Patti’s blog series, she raises the question on whether parents were given choices without undue pressure to go for a specific option. Part II of Durr’s series describes what ensues at hospitals soon after babies are born (with infant hearing screenings). That particular post brought a flashback of my experience at an audiology clinic with my second eldest infant son.
Before I go into details about that experience, I must let you know that I am a Deaf mother of 5 Hearing boys. Despite the fact that my babies were found to be hearing, I still encountered audism during one of my boys’ testings. My eldest was born in a hospital. Two weeks later, I brought him to an audiology clinic to find out if he was hearing or deaf. My suspicion that he was Hearing was confirmed.
My third son, who was born at home rather than at a hospital, never took an official hearing screen test. My husband and I decided to skip the infant hearing screen because it was so obvious that the baby was Hearing. Our home-made hearing test came in the form of our two older sons, aged 1 1/2 and 2 1/2 or 3 years old. The noise they produced kept startling the baby. That cheap home-made hearing test sure saved the government oodles of dollars that time!
My youngest, the twins, were born in the hospital rather than in the home due to the fact that twin pregnancies are automatically considered high risk. The morning after the boys were born, they each received an on-site hearing screening test. The results were that they were hearing. Technology have clearly improved to the point that there was no need for drugs to sedate them (unlike the situations described in the comments section of Patti’s Part III blog).
My experience with my second eldest son was different from that of my other boys. He was born at home, so that meant I had to take him to the audiology clinic a couple or so weeks later. It was eleven and a half years ago, but the memory is still fresh in my mind. I had to nurse him to sleep so the ABR test could be performed. Halfway through the test, I had to switch him to the other breast so his other ear could be tested. While nursing him to sleep, I inadvertently fell asleep as well. I must have been tired that day!
After a few minutes, I woke up just as the test was completed. The audiologist was looking at her computer and machines when suddenly she seemed disturbed. I could perceive a look of alarm on her face. That caused me to think that something was up. She looked back at us then at the screen and back with anxiety in her body language and on her face. I looked down at my sleeping infant and noticed that one of the wires fell off his scalp. I brought the audiologist’s attention to that fact. She administered the test on that ear once more. Once the results were in, there was an obvious look of relief on her face.
“He is hearing.”
Supposing the results were like this: One ear was Hearing, but the other ear was deaf. She would likely still have that look of alarm on her face and tension in her body. That would give me a clear message right there. Supposing my boy were hard of hearing, what kind of message would her body and words impart? I don’t know, but her alarm and body language were indelibly marked in my memory. I will never forget that.
Patti Durr’s description of the type of pressures American parents face in hospitals, regardless of whether these parents were Deaf or Hearing. When babies are diagnosed Deaf, audism run rampant in hospitals. Buzz phrases like ” your baby failed the hearing test” are used and impart negative messages to the parents. Pamphlets on cochlear implants are given out to parents soon after the Deaf babies are diagnosed. Deaf parents of Deaf babies experience and react to audism in the approaches used by medical professionals in dealing with them. (See comments section here.)
The combination of infant hearing screening tests, cochlear implant pamphlets and “neutral” websites cause me to question whether parents were given true choices.
Are parents given TRUE choices?
Remember: I am a Deaf parent. I have witnessed the negative facial and body language of that audiologist. I cannot help but conclude that if my child were diagnosed to hard of hearing, I would have received a negative message. Of that, I have no doubt.
Supposing that I were a Hearing mother with a newly diagnosed Deaf baby, and saw that alarmed facial expression and body language, what would my reaction be? I would have been taken aback, confused and upset . To make matters worse, I would be regretfully told, “Your child has failed the hearing test.” Shock, dismay and grief would follow that statement, especially when combined with the negative message given with that type of body language.
The audiologist would follow up with a reassuring “Don’t worry. There are cochlear implants and speech therapy available to help your child become more like us. The Infant Hearing Program will help you with this. “ Pamphlets are given to the beleaguered mother who is overwhelmed with what has to be done to rehabilitate her child.
Supposing that parent is told: “Don’t worry. I have a Deaf mentor available to support you. Your Deaf child is fortunate to be able to develop two languages–English and ASL–and grow up in two cultures. This will be a wonderful experience for you”? That would be great, but that has not happened. To date, I have not heard of any audiologists or other medical professional say that, ever. It’s usually ”Sorry, your baby failed the hearing screening test.”
Now, that’s BIAS for you! Usually, information about ASL is not shared (or at least mentioned briefly). Pamphlets on CIs are available to be given out, with alacrity. ”
“and we get the news – it is delivered to us with concerned looks, wringing of hands, and glossy pamphlets, DVDs, and display models of what CAN be DONE to overcome what IS
yes, instead of another basket of goodies and words of congratulations on your wee things Deafhood, we are whacked on the head with ….. the A word folks. And no it is not spelled with a “v” (ask the NAD they know how to spell it correctly)
we see the news and we sigh – just what we wanted “A healthy baby and we knew s/he was healthy all along” – healthy for us means Deaf or Hearing - y nada mas importa
but wait despite our joy and relief – they “the specialists” are still frowning – they is VERY worried now
they start selling their wares – they start tooting the scope of their practice ”
(Durr. People of the Eye blog. March 5)
Is that giving out neutral information? Can you say websites like this give out neutral and balanced information? Can you say that parents are given complete unbiased information with which to make their decisions? No, you cannot. (That particular website doesn’t even mention ASL. You have to make an effort to look for it in a link there somewhere.) There is CLEAR BIAS here in favour of making Deaf children hear rather than allow them to be Deaf bilinguals, exposed to ASL and ASL Deaf culture as well as English.
Back to my question…
Are parents of newly diagnosed babies given true choice in raising their Deaf children? Are they being given the chance to make a true choice without undue influence or pressure from audistic medical professionals and biased pamphlets and websites? Without subtle and subliminal messages that it is not a good thing for a child to be Deaf?
QUESTION OF THE DAY:
Have parents of Deaf babies able to exercise TRUE choice in the first place? Or is “True Choice” an illusion?
ADDENDUM: Here is another vlog (captioned) by Dr. Donald Grushkin for your viewing pleasure on the same issue.