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ICED 2010: FORGIVENESS


ENGLISH VERSION (loosely translated from ASL):

Once upon a time, in an Italian city far, far away, the Milan 1880 Resolution was passed that removed the use of sign languages from educational programs for the Deaf around the world.  Just last Monday, thanks to the hard work of the BC Deaf committee, supported by the Deaf community, Canadian and international, paid off in the rejection of the Milan 1880 Resolution by Vancouver ICED 2010 committee.

Now what??? FORGIVENESS!

I must add this vlog as a postscript to my previous vlog: ICED 2010, the New Era: What do We do?  Markku Jokinen, the president of World Federation of the Deaf (WFD), gave a speech.  One statement he made that made an impression on me is as follows:

“We must forgive ourselves.”  He gave the Finnish sign for forgiveness.  (view vlog at 1:09)  ”We must forgive ourselves first.  Then, we can forgive the Hearing for all those 130 years of terrible oppression.”

He is correct.

Look at us, the Deaf community, both online and offline, in the real word.  We have been engaged in much infighting and horizontal oppression.  Much pulling down of individuals (Crab theory is one explanation) and antagonism has divided us all.  This fragmentation is getting us nowhere.

United, we will succeed in obtaining what we want…and need. Look at the ICED 2010 Rejection (repudiation) of the Milan 1880 Resolution.  Wow. That was quite powerful.  The BC Deaf committee could not have been successful in its negotiations with the ICED 2010 committee if they did not have the backing of the BC Deaf community  or the international Deaf community at large.  We, the united Deaf community sent them a deluge of email letters of encouragement.  This accomplished much.

True, the New Era document is not perfect, but WE GOT SOMEWHERE!

Interestingly enough, I received an email letter from a friend who is Deaf.  He  made a point related to the clause containing the terms “all forms of communication” in the New Era document.  In full, the clause reads:

“Call upon all Nations of the world to remember history and ensure that educational programs accept and respect all languages and all forms of communication.”

My friend suggested that this clause was included to show that we are not rejecting those non-signing Deaf people who  use the following modes of communication i.e. oral, Cued speech, etc., and/or use cochlear implants.  He also suggested that if this clause was not included, it would look like we are rejecting those very people, when nothing could be further from the truth.  These non-signing Deaf are most definitely part of the Deaf community!

All those 130 years of systemic oppression! WHOA!

This same friend said that at one time he knew nothing of ASL because he was raised Oral. Now he is a fluent user of ASL.  If we had rejected him due to his being oral, he would have absolutely resisted becoming involved in the Deaf community.  This would have resulted in him becoming a solitary figure.

Hence, we MUST forgive ourselves, and unite!  Markku, who thinks in global terms, is correct when he implores us to forgive.  Forgiveness (Finnish sign 4:09).  It’s a key word. Forgive!

Forgiveness. It unites rather than divides. United, we shall educate others so that they may finally see…

Proud, confident, productive, creative and enabling Deaf citizens in respective countries*.

(*BLOGGER’S NOTE: The last line was excerpted from the New Era Document, second page.)

Bilingual KODA Toddlers Find Loophole

This is a loose translation of my ASL vlog contents.

Greetings everyone!

This is a fun vlog about my KODA twins who are now 5 1/2 years old.  This event occurred when they were approximately 1 1/2 to 2 yrs old while my mother-in-law was babysitting them at her home so I could get some errands done.

My MIL put the boys down for their afternoon nap together in one bed.  A few minutes later, she heard them chatting.  She went into the bedroom and admonished them to not talk as they were supposed to be sleeping.  She left the room.  A few moments later, things were quiet.  She was impressed that the little ones actually complied with her.  She decided to check in on them and found them signing to each other in ASL!

Well… the boys WERE complying with the letter of her command: Don’t TALK! Talk about loopholes!

Perspective of a Child of Hearing Parents: A Response

Readers, this is my rebuttal to a comment made by the author of A Weeping ASL Deaf User on the Cochlear Implant Online blog.

Dear OpenMinded Deaf Observer,

This is in response to your comment (#59)

I’m sorry for your pain of feeling “subhuman” in your family of hearing people.

I am a Child Of Hearing Parents like you. However, you and I differ in our perspectives of the world. My parents decided to not go the oral route with me, but raise me normally (my mother’s words, not mine) with sign language from 6 months old, and “bathe” me in language through the visible, accessible ASL surrounded by Deaf adults, and the strong supportive Deaf community where I hail from.
I have never grown up feeling like a black sheep in my Hearing family. True, not many people in my extended family signed, but that did not mean I did not grow up bilingual. I was surrounded by BOOKS, and by relatives including my grandparents and many uncles, aunts, and cousins who were more than happy to chat with me through writing, or fingerspelling or signing. Throughout my childhood, I got to see a variety of written English, from primary levels up to Ph.D level, so my English skills flourished.
Never once did I feel subhuman. In fact, I grew up feeling loved, and involved in family games and activities. True, I wasn’t able to participate in conversations fully, but that didn’t really bother me as I preferred to READ. I never felt that I HAD to fit into my family or that I HAD to use my speech. I was ACCEPTED for the unique Deaf individual I am by my family. True, I was occasionally curious about how things sounded, but I never had the burning desire to HEAR. How could I miss something that I never had in the first place? Silence is golden especially when you have 40+ cousins in your grandparents’ house! ;-)

As a Deaf Canadian, I support the bilingual approach for Deaf Children. True, more children are implanted these days, but that does not mean they shouldn’t have the advantage of ASL as well as spoken English.

As for technology:
TTY or Videophone? I’ll take both!! I use TTY for conversing with Hearing people through relay service. I don’t mind that. Videophone are great for connecting me with other Deaf people across Canada, and yes, USA. It sure is easy on the gas budget and the phone bill!
DVD vs VHS? I’ll take both! VHS is good especially since you don’t have to search for that tiny subtitle button on your remote. DVD is great since you press MENU button and skip the previews, and find that favourite scene.
Small gas-saving cars vs horse? Neither. Small cars don’t fit my large brood of children… 5 kids. Horses? Sorry. I always lose arguments with gravity.
“Disliking non-walking people to use wheelchair who want to see the real world as you prefer them to look at pictures of the real world and disallow them to explore the real world.” HUH?? That doesn’t make sense to me. I HAVE used a wheelchair 24 hours just to see what it was like for my best friend who is wheel-chair-bound. It didn’t stop me from seeing the real world, nor did it stop her from seeing the real world. It helped me better see the world from her perspective. Those of you who have Deaf relatives or friends, try those white out noise earplugs… you’d be surprised at what it’s like to walk in your kids or Deaf friends’ shoes.
If you are trying to tell me I’m not seeing the real world because I don’t use CI, I most definitely object. A person’s perspective of the real world differs from that of another. You cannot tell me that the world I live in, which is full of ASL and Deaf culture is any less real than that of the hearing world. That is definitely hogwash, and doesn’t wash with me. *

To borrow and change YOUR words: “What do you see in these analogies? POSITIVE RESPONSES!

Moi, selfish for wanting to give the GIFT of ASL to CI babies? PUHLEEZ! It is a gift for a child to be bilingual. I’m not opposed to Deaf babies being exposed to both English AND ASL. My problem is that when Deaf children DON’T benefit from the CI or AVT therapy, and I know of quite a few, they end up getting ASL AFTER their window of opportunity for language acquisition has long closed. THEN, it’s too late for them to become fully fluent in ANY one language, be it spoken or signed.

“The REAL WORLD is run by people with spoken language.” Hmmmm. Define “REAL WORLD”. It’s all in the perspective, dear. My REAL WORLD is my family, the communities in which I live, both Deaf and Hearing, my country, which is officially bilingual, by the way, and obviously the Internet ;-)

Just because Deaf children have CI doesn’t always mean they have better choices than we do. It’s all values. We all make value judgements as to what constitutes better choices. I KNOW I have excellent choices in my life. I exercise my choices as a Deaf ASL individual. THAT is a gift I will ALWAYS thank my parents for!

Shelley

* I have since re-read my post and revised. This revision is in a different colour since I have given this more thought after trying to figure out OMDO’s logic.